Tuesday, January 5, 2016

Table manners


Yes, eating out at restaurants with the elderly is an adventure. Not necessarily fun. But an adventure nonetheless. Very little embarrasses us anymore-- we are prepared for anything. Literally.
  • Going out to eat without combing her hair. Hair that has not been washed for two weeks. 
  • being loudly critical of passers by's weight, clothes, hair, (said in a loud "I can't hear so I don't care if she can hear me" voice.)
  • Yes, Daddy you must put pants over your Depends, and yes, you have to button your shirt
  • Wearing  sweat pants with fringed hems (that she fringed herself in 1982) with fuzzy pink crocs and a crazy vest. 
  • Bringing a thermal tote with her own beverage, a snack size applesauce for Daddy, and crackers.
  • Approaching anyone with a baby and proceeds to ooh and ahh and squeeze the baby's face, loudly stating, "oh I am getting my baby fix!"
  • Loudly asking "what is taking so long? Did they have to kill the cow?" if they have to wait longer than 90 seconds after ordering for their food to arrive
  • Playing with the napkins by putting them on the candle until they catch fire
  • Eating most of the meal then stating loudly "I hope they don't think I am paying for that!"
  • Putting their fingers in your salad, eating from your plate, saying your food looks like baby poop. 
  • Picking up the check, studying it, then putting it back on the table for someone else to pay
  • Staring at other people and commenting (loudly, of course) on their crazy hair, outfit, jewelry, etc.
  • Telling the server their list of medical ailments, including informing them of your colostomy bag
  • Letting the dog eat out of the container of ice cream, cheese dip, or applesauce and then putting it back in the refrigerator for others to share.  

...and I thought eating out with toddlers was challenging....thank goodness most restaurants we frequent serve alcohol...




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